Saturday, November 8, 2014

Clubfoot Files: How You Can Help

Welcome to another edition of The Clubfoot Files!  It's been awhile!




Clubfoot is a very small part of our lives now.  Harper wears her brace at night, but putting it on is such an ingrained part of our nightly routine that I don't even think of it.  I don't think of Harper as a "kid with clubfoot" like I used to.  And rightfully so - she's been cured, and our current setup is simply prevention of recurrence.  She was fully healed, thanks to a fairly easy, fairly painless, and fairly inexpensive treatment process (ok, it wasn't always easy, painfree, or cheap, but compared to many other birth defects, it's easy!).  

Harper at 2 years old showing you can still be sassy in your brace shoes.

The Ponseti method of casting and bracing allowed her to have a fully-functioning foot by the time she needed to use it to crawl and walk and run and dance and jump (ok, she's not really jumping yet - her jump is a hilarious yet unsuccessful attempt to leave the ground.  but that's just lack of coordination.)  

You can also have a nice bedtime snack of cucumber and corn while wearing your special shoes.
   
Yet there are children all over the world who are born with clubfoot and do not get the chance to be so easily healed.  They live in areas where, due to lack of resources, education, and support, they never receive treatment.  They grow up with a debilitating physical impairment that causes them physical and mental suffering.  They cannot work, they are ostracized, they cannot walk without pain.  Considering how relatively easy it is to cure clubfoot, it's a terrible shame that so many children grow up without the chance to be healed.


Although clubfoot is so common, treating it is not a cause that is widely recognized or supported by the masses.  There are many great organizations that work to help those affected, but they simply aren't commonly known outside of the clubfoot community.  In a world where there are so many causes pulling at our hearts and our wallets, it's hard for clubfoot treatment to compete.

I've mentioned here before about Miraclefeet.  I have nothing to do with this nonprofit beyond the fact that I follow the work they do to help treat clubfoot worldwide and I like what I see.  When Harper outgrows her braces, I send them to Miraclefeet so they can recycle them and give them to kids who cannot afford them otherwise.  They are a small, relatively new charity in the world of charities, but I know they are making great strides to helping kids worldwide get a new chance at life.  They are growing and reach out to 12 different coutries currently.  They empower local health workers to practice the Ponseti method, which has an exponential effect on the number of children who can be helped.  They have even worked to develop a new brace that costs only $20! and can be mass produced (so awesome) for use in many of the impoverished countries they work in.


I really encourage you to go to their website to learn more about their work.  (Again, I have no affiliation with them, I'm just encouraged by their work!  I know there are many groups out there working to help clubfoot, and I think those are great too!  I just happen to have more personal experience with Miraclefeet.)


What's great about clubfoot is how treatable it is - and how relatively inexpensive it is to treat.  Often, plaster casts and braces are all you need, which is easily implemented in countries with few resources - no fancy surgeries or medicines needed.  


Through Miraclefeet, a $250 donation will pay for the COMPLETE Ponseti treatment for one child.  This includes the casting, the braces, and even transportation to the clinic where treatment will occur (undoubtedly a big obstacle for many families).  We've easily spent thousands more than that on Harper's treatment, as we are lucky enough to be able to see specialists and buy new braces and fancy socks.  


It's somewhat mind-blowing to me that a child's entire life can be turned around for the cost of part of our grocery budget for a month or less than what we'll spend on electronics that will be discarded in a year or two.  A sweet little baby who happened to be born with a little crooked foot in a country where treatment is just not a readily-available option can have the chance to walk with no pain and avoid a lifetime of burden associated with clubfoot.  Yes, $250 is a lot of money, but when you think about the entire life-changing power it has, it's really a very small cost. 


We have been blessed with much.  No, not much compared to the ideals in our country, but so very much compared to most of the world.  I am so glad we were able to donate to Miraclefeet this year, changing one child's life, a child we will never know or meet, forever.  I cannot wait to help more children next year.  It's a cause that is near and dear to my heart and I am so glad to pay it forward.  I want to make it a priority.


I write this not to pat myself on the back, because man I wish we could donate more and more!  Our donation is small.  But I'm hoping I can use this blog as a platform to reach other clubfoot parents who are as extremely blessed as we are.  We have had the opportunity to treat our children in top quality hospitals with brand new braces and even cute cast covers. We didn't have to worry about our safety in traveling to the doctor.  We didn't have to worry about our child being shunned in a world that doesn't understand why her foot just happened to be a little crooked when she was born.  We don't have to fear for our child's future.


I'm hoping if you are a clubfoot family and have room in your budget this year, you will consider also paying it forward and helping another little baby have a better life, just like you helped your own baby.

Monday, November 3, 2014

Halloween!

Back with another "got to document it on the blog for posterity" post.  One day I will write something important again... maybe when Quinn sleeps through the night... :)

Halloween!  It happened.  Kids were costumed.  Candy was eaten.

I've enjoyed making costumes for Harper the past two years (more so "curating"... as there is little making involved).  First she was a surfer girl to accommodate her clubfoot brace.  


 Then she was an 80's jazzercise instructor, to accommodate her chubby thighs.  And irony, since she wasn't walking  :)



This year I made her my spirit animal, the squirrel.  Quinn needed to get in on the action, so she's was a squirrel's bff - an acorn.


I was cheap and got thrift store clothes - thus why they look a little ragamuffiny - most weren't quite the right sizes.  Quinn's hat was from Etsy.  It's always a toss up here in GA as to whether you will be sweating to death or freezing on Halloween.  Of course the year I went light on costuming, it was super cold.  Oh well.  The running kept Harper warm.



My sweet niece Lucy turned 1 on the 25th, so my sister decided to do a Halloween bash for her party.  It was a great reason for all of the adults to dress up!  Here's her fam:


This was my most fave - my mom whipped up these costumes for her an my dad.  I doubt they've dressed up like this since college! (I have photo evidence of them in garbage bags going as the infamous California Raisins) 


My sis Caitlin pulls off witch fairly easily (I kid.)


I was a tree to go with my forest children.  The bird nest on my head was proof.



These cousins love each other, for sure! 



The costume contest winner was certainly my Grammy!  My mom made her an Elmo headband.  Incredible.


Later, on actual Halloween, we ended up having a few friends' families come by.  As the numbers grew, we realized we would need to have everyone sit outside, since our house is quite small.  There were 8 adults and 12 kids.  But Halloween is perfect for a driveway party.


We had chili and hot dogs and other good stuff and the kids played in the grass in their costumes.  We dragged out all of the outside toys we could come up with, and it worked out great.  I want to keep doing this each year (come one come all!).




Kacy as Flo - we had the perfect prop for her!


Rabid squirrel going nuts that all her friends were here!



Dicey...



Some of the kids:


Now all of the kids (minus babies)!


We trick or treated for a while until it started raining-ish.  


Harper did much better than I thought she would.  She was so excited to run to the doors with the other kids.  We had to carry her from house to house, but I was pretty proud of her non-meltdown in the up after bedtime excitement.  Can't wait for next year!

Thursday, October 16, 2014

Fall Fun

Our friends Mikey and Kacy were kind enough to invite us to go with them to her parents' lake house this past weekend to enjoy some fall fun.  Our other friends the Thompsons came too, and it was wonderful to have some time out of our dark diaper cave of a house with some great people.


On Saturday, we went to a local farm in South Carolina (Denver Downs) where they have a giant corn maze, hay ride, and other such fall fun.  The other two families went last year, so we were excited to go too!  


It was your typical Southern October day - 85 degrees and sunny.  That little baby was a sweat machine inside the carrier! 
The farm was great - the only problem for us was it's not exactly the best for a 2 year old.  Harper is at that irritating stage where she can run around and have fun with the older kids, but isn't quite big enough to safely do all of the other things they are doing.  She just wanted to join in on their fun, but her paranoid mama wasn't quite ready for that.  I did let her go down the giant slide by herself, and luckily Mikey caught her here or she would have busted her face.  I was taking photos.... #parentingfail




 So there were lots of meltdowns and stroller screams while I fed the baby and sweated to death.  BUT it was still a lot of fun!  And it was fun watching the older kiddos in our group have a blast!

hi pumpkins.

The pumpkin patch was a safe activity, and we spent a lot of time there.  I loved how many there were.



We went on two horse carriage rides and one hay ride. 







Harper got to play in the corn box.




After that we had lots of time back at the house, where the children all played together and the adults counted the minutes until bedtime.  Kidding.  Not kidding...


I never want to wish the time away, neither daily or with each stage, but man.  This toddler.  She is such a handful right now!  A beautiful, mind boggling, wonderfully crazy handful! 



She knows the word "share" - and uses it by screaming it in the face of another kid whose toy she is snatching.  It's bad.  There were plenty of ugly screaming fits and redirection.  We are trying to figure out the balance between ignoring tantrums that will fizzle quickly and time out and actually disciplining.  Ugh.  We just don't want to have "that kid" who everyone is wary of! Harper really is such a sweet, social girl, so I know this phase will pass as long as we're consistent and diligent about it.  And I know she's just 2.  But hey, the positive is weekends like this are great practice in working with her!  And our friends are awesome and understand.  

We got to go on an evening boat ride (thanks Barb for watching Quinn!) which Harper really liked.


We forced the menfolk to swim with the insistent children (cold.).




Oh yeah, Quinn was there too. :)   Man, babies are easy.  As long as you can feed them and give them a safe place to sleep, they are the easiest thing ever.  Remind me to go back in time and tell Claire that 2 years ago. 


 The weather was perfect for sitting outside and staring at the water.


  

It was a great weekend and we were so glad to be invited!  I'm a sucker for all things fall, so this was a great way to celebrate! 


All of the kids, none of whom are looking at the camera.  Typical.  :)

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